We all know that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. We all know that God is love. We also all know that love is patient, and love is kind. That’s usually where we stop reciting this Scripture. If we believe that loving God and your neighbor are the two most important commandments, we should know how to define love.
What does the Bible define love as? We can get no better answer than 1 Corinthians 13:4-8… the WHOLE thing.
In 1 Corinthians, Paul says “Love is patient; love is kind.” This part feels the most familiar to us. To love someone, we must exercise patience with them and allow them to make mistakes. We need to give them time to process, heal, or figure life out. We must treat them with kindness and gentleness.
Now, we get into the part that we don’t always recite. Paul says next “It (love) does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” Love does not covet someone’s accomplishments or need to boast about its own. If we love someone, we show humility and desire to build them up.
Love also embodies selflessness. Paul’s next advice about love states that “It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” If we truly love someone, we must do so completely selflessly. Seek their needs instead of our own. Don’t be so hot tempered that little things make us angry. Notice, however, that God did not say that love doesn’t have a temper. After all, God displays anger with us sometimes. When the people we love wrong us, God allows us righteous anger. However, we shouldn’t let small, unimportant things make us blow up. If someone we love wrongs us, we shouldn’t keep track of it and steep in bitterness. Forgive them, like God would.
We owe the truth to those we love. “Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” Love loves goodness. Let us encourage those we love in their faith and increase our relationship with honesty. Do the right thing, whether by ourselves or with those we love. Love does the right thing.
So far, we talked about what love does NOT do. God’s description of love ends with what love ALWAYS does: “It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” If we love someone, we make sure they are safe, believe their word, believe in them, and love them through thick and thin.
Now, we really know why God is love. He loves goodness. He never gives up on us. He is selfless and kind. Using these verses, we can model God’s love every day.
Written by Gracie